What is Gaslighting? Is it Happening to Me?

What is Gaslighting? Is it Happening to Me?

What is Gaslighting? Is it Happening to Me? “My partner is gaslighting me.” It’s a common complaint I hear from clients – both men and women. But what does it really mean, and what can you do about it? According to an article from the Newport Institute, gaslighting is...
The Three Holiday Questions I Get Most Often

The Three Holiday Questions I Get Most Often

The Three Holiday Questions I Get Most Often For so many of us the holiday season is already stressful. Add in complications from divorce, and it can be even more difficult. With the traditions, family gatherings, and expectations surrounding the holidays, it’s common...
Top 10 myths of divorce

Top 10 myths of divorce

Top 10 myths of divorce 1. The judge / lawyer will hear my side and make things “right.” With very few exceptions, it is in your best interest to come up with a settlement that you create together with your team (lawyer, mediator, financial experts, etc.). Despite...
You’re right. Divorce isn’t fair.

You’re right. Divorce isn’t fair.

You’re right. Divorce isn’t fair. It’s one of the things I hear most often when talking to clients about their situation. “It’s so unfair.” Chances are, you’re right. There are so many good reasons you might feel this way. First, it is a totally subjective situation!...
Wow! My kids turned 25 this week

Wow! My kids turned 25 this week

Wow! My kids turned 25 this week On Monday, October 21st my amazing twins, Hannah & Max, turned 25. They spent the weekend together in New York City and I have found myself thinking about this milestone birthday and how much I’ve learned from them as they grow up....
What is a Blessing? Maybe it’s not what you think…

What is a Blessing? Maybe it’s not what you think…

What is a Blessing? Maybe it’s not what you think… When was the last time you really thought about the definition of a blessing? Recently, someone shared a beautiful definition with me that I had never heard, and it made me think more about the word and its meaning....